If you are wondering where can I send my out of control teenager then I think I can help you. When my son was a teenager a few years back I really had had enough of him and he would not listen to anything I said so I wanted to get rid of him. Fortunately we have both come a long way since those dark days and we laugh about them now. I learnt timeless principles and applied them.
Would a temporary break do? - You may be clouded with emotion right now and you have to answer this question to yourself. Would a break at a relatives for a few days or weeks do. Then you could think over the decision and decide what is the best course of action. Ask around the family or think of someone that they get along with. Although you cannot do this consistently because the teen will have an unstable home and feel like it is a holiday every time they are naughty.
Boot Camp - Over summer they hold lots of camps and training schemes which your out of control teenager can go and live at. They go away for a few months and get taught essential things like discipline and team work. You may find if you send your out of control teenager on one of these things they come back a changed person.
Stick With It - A lot of them time you just have to ignore what the teenager is saying and doing and just think what do they really want? It is likely to be appreciation and love because they feel ignored in the family. This is normal behaviour for teenagers. Just start to listen to them the best that you can and love them. Eventually they will return the love and you too will laugh about this one day.